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utopia

heres a thought.
what if we were all able to freely explore this life
being completely aware of the processes occurring to us. And passively observing things that are not apparently within our control.
If we observe life flexibly, knowing the cause and effect of the general idea of things.
Everything will lose serious meaning.

A fight with your friend. But both of you are aware that this anger stems from irrational self protection or lack of ability to accept an alternative option. This level of self-awareness will allow us to not only forgive ourselves for the things that we experience but be able to consciously alter our responses to things.

Our world is so distracted in the surviving part. Just passing by.
Just paying the rent. Just finding work.
Even things that appear to be free are not.
Passion is masked by want to succeed. Authenticity masked by the people we are meant to be.
Ambition is thought to be admirable in western culture, why?
Selflessness is thought to be admirable, why?
These may appear to be purely admirable qualities but is masked with the notions of appearing to be admirable.
We never question the why of positive traits because well... they're just good things, no question about it.
Yet those who question these things, who attempt to unmask the sugar coated traits are thought of as selfish jerks who have no heart. That's alot of judgment coming from a 'selfless' person...
These people are just trying to figure it out. Just because people have not been naturally conditioned to feel a certain desire to want to be someone, it does not make them any less of a person.

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