Skip to main content

planned personalities

because you cannot wait to do these things, soon it will be too late
attitudes and beliefs are not something that you plan,
the perspective that you have towards something is not something you can write
in a journal and tuck away to reflect on later.
Of course goals can be planned and different ways to achieve them can be thought of.
But the beliefs and visions that you have of how you want to carry yourself, what
kind of person you want to be, what you believe to be right...
these things are not something you logically ponder over and decide, thats it!
its the accumulation of all these thoughts and experiences you have, the building
up of yourself. Who you are is the awareness of the way your thoughts work
how you decide to think or act in that particular present moment. it is not who
you want to be or who you think you will be in the future. it is what you are now
and whether you make the changes or not become the person that you wish to be.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

on empathy & kindness

 i've learnt so much about empathy and kindness and love these past few months  i always expected another person to show love for me,  before i can give it to them.  and if they did show love from the start, i always thought there wasnt a reason to. that they were just desperate, or being crazy, irrational.  but if we all think like that, no one will ever take a step forward  (luckily not everyone is like this, and we can heal eachother) i ran away from people that showed me love but i also never gave people that love either  we should be kind to people, as they are  without expecting reward or praise or something back from them.  if they are willing to accept that, then good if not, then such energies should be attributed elsewhere (you can't pour tea into a close pot) if they return that love, we should accept it and not question it (when someone opens the door for us, do we question why they're doing it? no) no matter how bad his bad habit...
Post a Comment
Read more

arguing

I'm just so sick of arguing with people It's not a good feeling when you are both yelling at each other to prove a point And to be quite honest, its not worth it I used to gain so much joy from these things Thinking it was discussion and evolving or something Maybe intellectually we were getting somewhere But spiritually, emotionally, it was all degrading Speaking over each other Making the other person feel uncomfortable Experiencing that first hand and realizing that you never ever Want to make the other person feel the way that you did. When things come from the intention of empathy and mutual love, This is when things actually grow Not when you’re creating walls of opinions But when you connect through shared differences And acknowledgement of this diversity This is where true evolution happens
Post a Comment
Read more

departure

Maybe its meant to be The passing of time Seems to let us free Makes us more carefree Farewell to a friend Hoping for the best That in some other world This journey won't end But long paved roads Take hours to walk down A dragging trip Complacence is found If we can refresh The origin of our motives Healthy company In each other, we'll notice.
Post a Comment
Read more