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A reasonable distance, trusting the right people with my vulnerability
Do not trust the people that will use this against you, to manipulate you and make you feel small 
those who do not try to be on your level to understand 
Instead of latching onto these people and things, and playing mind games, passiveness, social media arguments... 

focus on self, what you do best 
working on the craft of your life 
focusing on radiating energy that you want to see in the world 
everything is what you draw your attention to, what you choose to see in every circumstance 

By doing what you love, you will attract the people that love the same thing 
You wont have to focus on things that do not matter to you 
This is how you find the right vibrations, right communities 

You dont have aligned interest right now. Find that. 
Invest your time in creating a world for yourself and others who feel the same things you do, that relate. 

Maintaining old friendship based off of past interest and state of mind... but keep yourself intact ! Do not let their criticisms destroy you, you are so much stronger than that. 
its okay to be with these people, because they have their extremely good sides... but dont take any thing too seriously if you can't trust them to give you the things right for you

Drinking and partying and having fun and holidays are fun, but its not enough for sustenance of truly fulfilling friendships or shared interests, something else needs to be happening in your life to make these activities worth while. A progression towards anything, 

Make bold movements, go outside of your circle to find the thing that propels you... 
This is not for them, this is for you.
That is the only way you will be able to create anything worthwhile that contributes to others quality of survival 

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