arguing

I'm just so sick of arguing with people

It's not a good feeling when you are both yelling at each other to prove a point

And to be quite honest, its not worth it

I used to gain so much joy from these things

Thinking it was discussion and evolving or something

Maybe intellectually we were getting somewhere

But spiritually, emotionally, it was all degrading

Speaking over each other

Making the other person feel uncomfortable

Experiencing that first hand and realizing that you never ever

Want to make the other person feel the way that you did.

When things come from the intention of empathy and mutual love,

This is when things actually grow

Not when you’re creating walls of opinions

But when you connect through shared differences

And acknowledgement of this diversity

This is where true evolution happens